Over the past few months, Facebook has become more frustrating than ever for me.
The thing that’s been getting to me lately is the negativity I see my friends posting about, especially when it comes to money. They seem to think it’s everyone else’s fault that they’re broke.
Well, here’s my response as someone who’s already overcome broke:
Get off your a$$ and get to work if you really want to change your financial situation.
The Truth About Why You’re Broke
Ok, that may sound harsh, but I’ve been there myself. What changed my situation was hard work and determination.
It also takes you recognizing why you’re broke in the first place.
More than likely, you’re broke because you don’t have a budget, don’t stick to your budget, or choose to use your money unwisely.
I get it! I used to do the same things.
Of course, there are times when things could be beyond your control and these things can contribute to why you’re broke.
But most of the people who b*tch about being broke on Facebook are not actually a “victim” of anything but their own lack of planning.
3 Ways to Overcome Broke
Ready to finally overcome broke? Here’s how.
1. Take Responsibility
Instead of complaining about why you’re broke by posting about it on Facebook with your $600 iPhone, you need to take responsibility for your situation so you can overcome being broke.
If you have time to post about it on Facebook, or sit around and watch TV, you have the time to take responsibility for your finances.
Start tracking your spending with a free app like Personal Capital. Their tool let’s you keep track of your spending, financial accounts, budget, and more. I love seeing all of my numbers in one place!
Make a budget. I promise, it’s not as hard as it seems, especially if you’ve already been tracking your spending.
Create a plan to get out of debt. Tally it up and see how much money you’re wasting on interest. Chances are, Interest eats away at the money you put toward your debt each month. If you have high interest debt, find out about refinancing with Credible.
2. Find Ways to Make More Money
There are lots of ways to make more money. In fact, I compiled a list of 77 ways to make more money. I’m sure you can find at least one that works for you!
Here are a few ideas to get you started, too.
Use your TV time to work more hours. Ask your boss for additional duties, responsibilities, or hours. You can even try asking for a raise for work you’re already doing!
Find another job, or take on a side hustle. There are lots of ways to make money that don’t even require you to leave the house! You can take surveys for cash with Survey Junkie or make money blogging. I’ve turned my blog into a 5 figure/month business!
3. Find Ways to Save More Money
Dare to go against the grain by canceling your TV subscription. Sign up for an alternative, like Hulu, to save money and still watch your favorite shows. Canceling TV may sound like crazy talk. But, when you add up how much money you’ll save, you’ll think you’re crazy for not doing it sooner!
Switch to a different wireless carrier, like Straight Talk. It’s super cheap, with plans starting at just $35, but the service is still great.
Stop eating out and start cooking at home. Lay off the junk food when you go grocery shopping. Who needs that many bags of chips and cases of soda anyway? Use coupons, but only for the things you really need.
Instead of going out with friends, have a ladies night in with a potluck dinner and a movie. Or, split a bottle of wine and do your own pedicures and face masks.
Lowering these expenses is the jump start you need to overcome broke.
The Bottom Line
These things may sound judgmental and they may seem like sacrifices, but I’ve done these things too. I’ve put things back on the shelf at the grocery store, and I’ve worked multiple jobs to balance my budget. I know what it feels like to be behind, like you can’t catch up and improve your finances. But the truth is that it CAN be done!
I still have a ways to go to be debt free and reach my savings goals. But, you won’t see me sitting around b*tching about being broke on Facebook. Instead, I choose not to be a “victim”.
I know that my financial situation is only going to be changed by me getting off my a$$ and getting to work, and by choosing to make good financial decisions every single day. Yes, it’s hard! I won’t deny that at all. But it’s better than blaming others for why you’re broke.